Category: Relationships

What Men Talk About at Bars: Relationship Building, Kids, and the Romance of the Road

I was sitting at a bar in central South Dakota the other night chatting with the barkeep – an amiable half Jewish, half native American, sports loving ex-convict from St. Louis, via Missoula, Richmond, VA and the Bronx – when the conversation shifted, naturally, to our partners. I am in a commuter marriage between Chicago

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Making Divorce Work: Wait! That’s not my kid!

A continuing series on separation survival from those who have bravely gone there before you. The ink on the settlement is long dry. The anger has dissipated. You’ve returned to the dating fold. My god, you’re having sex again (finally) – with someone who is not your ex! The list of Things You Never Expected

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