Category: Relationships

What Length Love & Marriage

It is well documented that my wife and I live 773 air miles apart and have so for the entire 14 years of our relationship. Some ask what is the longest you have ever been apart? Wrong question. More apt? What is the longest you have ever been together? The other morning I found myself

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What Men Talk About at Bars: Relationship Building, Kids, and the Romance of the Road

I was sitting at a bar in central South Dakota the other night chatting with the barkeep – an amiable half Jewish, half native American, sports loving ex-convict from St. Louis, via Missoula, Richmond, VA and the Bronx – when the conversation shifted, naturally, to our partners. I am in a commuter marriage between Chicago

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Making Divorce Work: Wait! That’s not my kid!

A continuing series on separation survival from those who have bravely gone there before you. The ink on the settlement is long dry. The anger has dissipated. You’ve returned to the dating fold. My god, you’re having sex again (finally) – with someone who is not your ex! The list of Things You Never Expected

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